For you, what is the perfect definition of marriage? Do you imagine a young couple walking hand in a hand along the beach when the sun set? Or you imagine a mother and father having a picnic in the garden with their children?

Be careful, the description you got it in a film will make your relationship tasteless. It is only a fantasy, than you will be regretted if your partner is not like what you imagine.

Actually, you can get the perfect marriage by doing approach to your partner. Please understand that the perfect one is not only like what you see in a film or fable.
However, the realistic hope toward your partner make you don?t appreciate him. How can you see the positive points from him?

In other word, don?t try to compare with the character in film, because that is not real. When the film is over, you have to get back of cooking, paying bill and caring your children.

Appearance hope
Sometime, people have unrealistic hope to the partner. Like, hope the partner always agrees with her.
If you wanna good one, you must forget the unrealistic one. The realistic marriage involves two people with different idea and taste for enriching your connection. The way to do it is by concentrating on the plus points of your partner.

Positive thinking
Find the wonderful image of your partner. If you think black, read again what you wrote.